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Specialist Sample Report

Interpersonal Needs — Synthetic Sample

An illustrative interpersonal needs report showing the structure and depth every participant receives after completing this specialist assessment.

Elite Negotiator Index™
Specialist Report

Interpersonal Needs Profile

Participant: Sample ParticipantDate: 10 October 2026
How to Read This Report

Use this report as a practical guide to how you tend to negotiate in this specific area. Start with your overall pattern, then look at the scores and behaviours behind it. Pay particular attention to where your strengths may become less useful under pressure and to the development actions you can test in real negotiations.

There are no 'good' or 'bad' profiles. The value comes from understanding your natural tendencies, where they help you and where greater choice could improve your effectiveness.

About This Assessment

This specialist assessment is part of the Elite Negotiator Index™. It is a developmental self-report tool designed to support reflection and professional development in negotiation.

Your results describe patterns in the responses you provided. They are not a clinical assessment, a measure of personal worth, or a ranking against other negotiators.

Contents
01Your Profile at a Glance........01
02Your Interpersonal Needs Signature™........02
03How Your Pattern Works........03
04Watch-Outs and Risks........04
05Your Development Plan........05
01
Chapter

Your Profile at a Glance

Headline Profile
The Connector

Your primary interpersonal need is Connection — you invest in genuine personal relationships with the people you negotiate with. You initiate connection more than you seek it, which means you set the relational tone rather than waiting for the counterpart to establish it. Your Belonging and Influence needs are moderate and balanced, giving you flexibility in how you engage with groups and structure.

Your Interpersonal Edge
Your edge is that you build genuine connection without needing it to be reciprocated before you can negotiate. You initiate rapport, which sets a collaborative tone and makes the counterpart more willing to share information and invest in the relationship.
Expansion Opportunity
Influence — What You Initiate is your least-active dimension. You do not strongly initiate control of the process or the agenda, which lets the counterpart set the structure more often than you might want. Developing deliberate influence initiation would let you guide the process without abandoning the collaborative tone that makes your connections productive.

Dimension scores range from 24 to 32 out of 40. Need scores (Initiate + Seek) range from 54 to 61 out of 80. Connection is your primary need.

Three Key Insights
1
Connection Is Your Primary Need

Connection — the need for genuine personal relationship — drives your negotiation behaviour more than Belonging or Influence. You invest in rapport because it matters to you, not just because it is strategic.

2
You Initiate More Than You Seek

Across all three needs, you tend to initiate rather than wait. You set the relational tone, include others, and establish connection rather than waiting for the counterpart to do so. This makes you proactive in shaping the interpersonal climate.

3
Influence Initiation Is Your Development Edge

You are less likely to initiate control of the process or the agenda. This lets the counterpart set the structure, which can work well with collaborative counterparts but leaves you vulnerable to those who use process control strategically.

Your #1 Development Priority
Initiate Process Influence Deliberately

You build connection naturally but let the counterpart set the process more often than you should. Practice initiating one element of process control in your next negotiation — proposing the agenda, suggesting the order of issues, or framing the conversation — without abandoning the collaborative tone that makes your connections productive.

02
Chapter

Your Interpersonal Needs Signature™

Your three interpersonal needs — what you initiate and what you seek.

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Primary Need
Connection
Development Edge
Influence — What I Initiate
Your Three Needs
NeedScoreBand
Belonging54 / 80High
Influence54 / 80High
Connection61 / 80High
Your Full Needs Profile
Belonging — What I Initiate
28/ 40
Moderate
Belonging — What I Seek
26/ 40
Moderate
Influence — What I Initiate
24/ 40
Moderate
Expansion
Influence — What I Seek
30/ 40
Strong
Connection — What I Initiate
32/ 40
Strong
Top 3
Connection — What I Seek
29/ 40
Strong
Top 3
What Stands Out
Connection is your primary need, and you initiate it more than you seek it. Your Belonging and Influence needs are moderate and balanced. The result is a negotiator who builds genuine rapport proactively but may not always guide the process as deliberately as the relationship.
03
Chapter

How Your Pattern Works

Your Strongest Interpersonal Dimensions
1. Connection — What You Initiate32 / 40

You proactively build personal rapport with the counterpart. You invest in understanding them as a person, not just as a negotiating party, and you set a collaborative relational tone from the start.

What This Means for the Other Person

Counterparts feel that you see them as a person, not just a position. This makes them more willing to share information, invest in the relationship, and look for joint gains.

2. Connection — What You Seek29 / 40

You value personal rapport from the counterpart, but you do not need it before you can engage on substance. You initiate connection and hope it is reciprocated, but you can negotiate effectively without it.

What This Means for the Other Person

You are not dependent on the counterpart's warmth. You can negotiate well with counterparts who are purely transactional, even though you prefer those who invest in the relationship.

How Your Top Dimensions Work Together

Your Connection Initiate and Connection Seek dimensions work together to make you a proactive relationship builder who is not dependent on reciprocation. You initiate rapport because it matters to you, and you seek it because you value it — but you can function without it.

The risk is that your strength in connection can become a substitute for process influence. You build rapport instead of setting the agenda, which works with collaborative counterparts but leaves you vulnerable to those who use process control strategically.

Your Strategic Opportunity
Your connection-initiating style is powerful in relationship-critical negotiations where trust matters. The opportunity is to add deliberate process influence — proposing the agenda, framing the conversation, guiding the order of issues — so that you guide the negotiation as well as you guide the relationship.
How Others May Experience Your Needs
Positive Experience

They made it personal in a good way. I felt they saw me as a person, not just a position. That made me want to invest in the relationship and look for solutions that worked for both of us.

How They Might React

Sometimes I wanted them to take more control of the process. They built rapport well but let me set the agenda more than I expected.

04
Chapter

Watch-Outs and Risks

Your Watch-Out

Your signature is proactive connection with moderate belonging and influence needs. The watch-out is that your strength in connection can substitute for process influence. You build rapport instead of setting the agenda, which works with collaborative counterparts but leaves you vulnerable to those who use process control strategically.

You May Be Over-Applying Your Needs When…
You invest in rapport with a counterpart who is using the relationship to extract concessions, without guiding the process to protect your interests.
You let the counterpart set the agenda because initiating process control feels confrontational, even when the agenda they set disadvantages you.
You wait for personal rapport before engaging on substance, which can stall transactional negotiations that do not require a relationship.
You over-connect on a personal level, which can blur professional boundaries or create obligations that complicate the negotiation.
The Shadow Side of Every Need
DimensionPossible Over-Application
Belonging (Initiated)Over-including people who do not need or want inclusion, which can slow decisions or dilute accountability.
Belonging (Sought)Relying on group acceptance before acting, which can make you slow or indecisive when solo action is needed.
Influence (Initiated)Over-controlling the process or the agenda, which can crowd out the counterpart and damage trust.
Influence (Sought)Deferring to authority or structure to avoid responsibility for the outcome.
Connection (Initiated)Over-connecting on a personal level, which can blur professional boundaries or create obligations.
Connection (Sought)Needing personal rapport before engaging on substance, which can stall transactional negotiations.
The Elite Negotiator Ethics Test

Before applying an interpersonal tactic, ask:

→Is it true?
→Is it fair?
→Would I be comfortable if the counterpart fully understood what I was doing?

If not, reconsider the tactic.

05
Chapter

Your Development Plan

Three Development Priorities
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1. Propose the Agenda

In your next negotiation, propose the agenda or the order of issues before the counterpart does. This is a single, concrete act of process influence that does not require you to change your collaborative style.

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2. Separate Connection from Process

Notice when you are building rapport as a substitute for guiding the process. Both matter, but they are different skills. Practice doing both — connecting and guiding — in the same conversation.

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3. Calibrate Connection to the Situation

Not every negotiation requires deep personal rapport. Practice calibrating your connection investment to the relationship — more for long-term partners, less for one-off transactions.

Next Negotiation Experiment
Before

Before your next negotiation, write down one element of process control you will initiate — proposing the agenda, suggesting the order of issues, or framing the opening. Keep it simple and concrete.

During

Initiate that element of process early, before the counterpart sets the structure. Notice whether it changes the dynamic — and whether you can do it without abandoning your collaborative tone.

After

Ask yourself: did initiating process control change the negotiation? Did it feel natural or forced? If it felt forced, what would make it feel more natural next time?

Elite Negotiator Principle™
Connect and Guide

The best negotiators do not choose between connection and process control. They do both — building genuine rapport while guiding the structure of the conversation. Connection without guidance leaves the process to the counterpart.

Responsible Interpretation

This profile reflects your self-reported interpersonal needs in negotiation. It describes the needs that tend to be most active in your negotiation behaviour, not a measure of your social skill or likability. Higher needs are not better or worse — they describe what you tend to seek and initiate. The objective is awareness of your needs and the range to calibrate them to the situation.

Synthetic sample report — all scores and narratives are illustrative and do not represent any real respondent.